I just started dating her maybe a little more than a month ago. She has two young children, a 2-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter. So far it has been fun to hang out with her and the kids. I am just wondering if there are anythings I should look out for or any stories I can draw from. I like her a lot.
Now, I’m not saying this would happen. I’m going to explain what’s happened to *me* in this situation.
I love kids and have none. I have been in relationships with several “mothers” (milfs- lol). I bonded with *all* their kids. They were *all* awesome! And I miss most of them. Now, I’m sure it goes both ways, too. I’m sure they miss *me*, as well. But it absolutely did not work-out with any of them. Else, I’d still be there.
I guess what I’m getting at is that if you were to ever separate yourself from this woman, you could do some damage, for the long haul, with these kids, if you get too close to them. But that’s life! Right?
In fact, about 2-3 years ago, I was going to see one of my women (at the time) and there were a bunch of teenagers out front. Hers and I guess some neighbor teens. A few more than usual. So, I get out of my car and head toward the door (downtown/city setting). On of them stands up and says, “Steve?!?? Steve T*******?!??” I said, “yeah?” He said, “It’s *me*! Joey!” … I didn’t think much of it and did not recognize him. “Don’t you remember me?!??” I said, “ummm… uhhh… You *look* a little familiar, but ummm… No?” He then proceeded to tell me he was J**** K*****’s son. I was blown away!!! OMG!!! Last time I saw this kid, he was knee high to me. I wanted to crumple up into a tin-foil ball and roll under the car(s). He was very excited to see me, cos we were pretty tight when I was with his mother (30 miles away). They moved to *this* neighborhood. (small-small-world) We went for coffee, hung out and chilled. And let me tell you, “WoW!” If I never left her mother, how different he (and probably me) would be.
Sorry my answer is sssO long. I’m killing time while *my* question *might* be in the answer process. I’m having web-design trouble.
OK… Good luck with the single mother. You’re alright. Don’t worry about anything. Just treat ‘em right and one of the kids may become a millionaire and take care of you when you’re old.
Good luck!